changing and compromising

Its true how they say that you cannot change someone in order to fit them in your lifestyle or how you choose to live your life..

But you can compromise for that person.

Changing. Its doing something totally opposite to what you usually do. BECAUSE of certain factors, like fear, frustration or anger..

Compromising. it is looking at things in her or his way then analyzing which are the things you can do and cannot do without. or things you can lessen or things you can justify with. You do this because you care about this person and how he or she feels. And you want the both of you to be happy.

If you don't feel that way and you feel like your partner is forcing you to change into someone you are not and you still stick on the idea "this is what I am, this is what I do, and nobody can change me" well i guess, i got two words for you and three more "GOOD LUCK" and "LET IT GO"

Good luck in finding someone who will keep up with you and your idea of vacuum love. You cannot always take things from someone.

And if you're still in the relationship. LET IT GO. Your problem is a hopeless one. Your just making it hard for you and that someone.

But I'm sure sooner or later u'll learn to compromise its not yet the time and the person to do it with, I guess.

*disclaimer: if you're being poked with the subject, i have nothing against you, just blurting out my thoughts, and besides I don't know you just yet to judge you. *wink*

hey jelousy

and she gave me the silent treatment yesterday..

and her silence was killing me..

i cannot ask her to talk to me or tell me whats wrong, tho i really know what's wrong,

i just want her to tell me that what i did to pissed her off and tell me that she needs me to do this that i won't be doing this.. i just need to know what's going on in her mind.

make over

I'm getting tired of how i look..

I'd like to change how i dress..

how i think about buying stuff for my self

i'd like to financially worry free.. (goodluck to that!)

how i'd like to earn enough to send my brother and my sister to school, enough to buy my mom and my dad groceries, enough to pay our bills, enough to buy myself clothes and shoes and bags and stuff every month, enough to eat on fancy restaurants with my special someone.

enough to just relax..

i want to a make over of my look, my life and my wallet.